MISSUnderstanding...Think About it!

Isn't it ironic how we ignore the ones who adore us. Adore the ones who ignore us. Love the ones who hurt us and hurt the ones who love us? HA! A simple phrase that was once just a simple phrase. However as I go through life so much seems to change. Friends that were once my friend have went their separate ways never returning again or have slowly became enemies without my awareness. Funny how people change or how people plot up stuff in their mind or think something totally different for a while from their current actions. And then you end up looking like the fool and the joke is on you.

Hmmmmm....it's so easy to point out the flaws in someone else's situation however when you're placed in that situation that finger does't point out as quickly. It's also hilarious how we can know the right thing to do in wrong situations before we even do it and still do wrong. Why do we do this? I don't know but I learn from all wrong situations so I can never have to experience them again. People will fool you and take advantage of you without your awarness and when you do become aware you will be in too deep to dig yourself out or change what is bound to happen. Too bad we don't see it coming before it hits us. Or do we? Do we see it and deny what is actually happening because we think we can trust our own instincts about certain people whom we THINK we know so well but don't know at ALL! No one can truely say what the next person is not capable of, because you never know what is REALLY on a person's mind until......BOOM!.....it clows up out of no where when you least expect it, and you'll be like WTF?! I've found it is TRUE what they say about friends...REAL ones last a lifetime, whereas others are in your life for a reason or a season....THINK about it.....why are your friends? Do you REALLY know them? The answer is NO!

No matter how well or how LONG you have known them you really don't know them. SAD TO SAY.... And I don't understand how people allow other people to change what is meant to be. We listen to other people tell us about ourselves everyday all day and we change our lives and feelings towards people and things according to what someone else has told us. THINK ABOUT IT! We let people determine what we wear, how we act, friends, and relationships. So are there REALLY any leaders out there? Does ANYONE think for themselves anymore? No matter how we think we aren't affected about what is said we really are, but we shouldn't be. We should be able to make our own decisions and trust our own judgement right? Yeah right....but WHAT IS THAT?